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Sunday, March 28, 2010
Paul Begala's Hallelujah
Wm. Hemmerling
Begala: "The one law Congress can never overturn is the Law of Unintended Consequences. But that's why our Founders challenged us to 'form a more perfect Union,' because true perfection is not possible this side of heaven. Instead, we work to improve, to make progress, to renew."
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Tuesday, March 23, 2010
DHS fails to investigate the deaths of 10 children in 2008
Now, Colorado House panel investigates the DHS. Sorta.
Dear Rep. Kefalas --
I was extremely proud the day you won your House seat in the Colorado Legislature after a long and sustained effort to get there. And I appreciate the time you shared with me in the past few years on behalf of the Rocky Mountain Bullhorn (RIP).
I'm writing to ask you about the current House panel on which you sit to investigate the tragic negligence of the DHS, a story which was exposed (miraculously enough) by the Coloradoan. I read with interest their coverage of yesterday's hearing (although I trust you've read it already).
The Coloradoan story rightly includes this passage, as it speaks for me and every reasonable person who's watching the continuing story unfold:
Lawmakers did not ask Beye who on her staff was responsible for ensuring the reports were finished after the two employees left and did not ask her what role she should have played in ensuring the reports were completed.
I realize that we can get only a flavor of the proceedings from the media's coverage. And I understand first-hand how ridiculously slow the wheels of governmental bureaucracy turn. But, based on what appears to be a softball inquiry into the deaths of ten children, it's not unreasonable to wonder how many more children have to literally lose their lives while Exec. Dir. Karen Beye still maintains her Ritter-appointed post. "Where does the buck lie?" you asked? Figuring out who had what file when is the last question on my list. I'm honestly gobsmacked by your limp rhetoric. If the buck doesn't stop with Beye, what on earth is she still doing in that job?
Look at it this way: Gov. Ritter is a lame-duck governor. Firing Beye (or calling for her resignation, etc.) shows the State, and its most vulnerable citizens who are thrown into the dysfunctional machinery that is the DHS, that the House panel is, indeed, serious about its work. You've heard the saying, "Fish rots from the head down"? No legitimate overhaul of the DHS (a foregone conclusion, surely?) can be contemplated without dumping Beye.
Would that those ten children were shown the gentleness and compassion by the DHS that your panel is now showing Karen Beye. Please don't allow politics to overrule your common sense or integrity. As Mother Jones once said: "Pray for the dead, and fight like hell for the living." I think your duty here is clear. Please show some leadership and act on behalf of the children at risk, and their families who are forced to depend on the DHS to do their jobs.
Sincerely,
-- KT
Dear Rep. Kefalas --
I was extremely proud the day you won your House seat in the Colorado Legislature after a long and sustained effort to get there. And I appreciate the time you shared with me in the past few years on behalf of the Rocky Mountain Bullhorn (RIP).
I'm writing to ask you about the current House panel on which you sit to investigate the tragic negligence of the DHS, a story which was exposed (miraculously enough) by the Coloradoan. I read with interest their coverage of yesterday's hearing (although I trust you've read it already).
The Coloradoan story rightly includes this passage, as it speaks for me and every reasonable person who's watching the continuing story unfold:
Lawmakers did not ask Beye who on her staff was responsible for ensuring the reports were finished after the two employees left and did not ask her what role she should have played in ensuring the reports were completed.
I realize that we can get only a flavor of the proceedings from the media's coverage. And I understand first-hand how ridiculously slow the wheels of governmental bureaucracy turn. But, based on what appears to be a softball inquiry into the deaths of ten children, it's not unreasonable to wonder how many more children have to literally lose their lives while Exec. Dir. Karen Beye still maintains her Ritter-appointed post. "Where does the buck lie?" you asked? Figuring out who had what file when is the last question on my list. I'm honestly gobsmacked by your limp rhetoric. If the buck doesn't stop with Beye, what on earth is she still doing in that job?
Look at it this way: Gov. Ritter is a lame-duck governor. Firing Beye (or calling for her resignation, etc.) shows the State, and its most vulnerable citizens who are thrown into the dysfunctional machinery that is the DHS, that the House panel is, indeed, serious about its work. You've heard the saying, "Fish rots from the head down"? No legitimate overhaul of the DHS (a foregone conclusion, surely?) can be contemplated without dumping Beye.
Would that those ten children were shown the gentleness and compassion by the DHS that your panel is now showing Karen Beye. Please don't allow politics to overrule your common sense or integrity. As Mother Jones once said: "Pray for the dead, and fight like hell for the living." I think your duty here is clear. Please show some leadership and act on behalf of the children at risk, and their families who are forced to depend on the DHS to do their jobs.
Sincerely,
-- KT
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Breaking the cycle of abuse: Steven Weber's "Desperate Fathers"
My response:
You dug deep for this one, SW -- good on ya.
Growing up in an angry home teaches children to be hyper-vigilant as they try (mostly in vain) to outguess what will make Mom/Dad explode in order to avoid the outsized consequences. BTW, this is excellent training for being able to quickly identify garden-variety crazies in adulthood, but it comes at the cost of being confused and ashamed of one's natural instincts and reactions during the formative years. It's very hard to course-correct for this later in life. There's always some need to fulfill that role of punisher long after the perpetrator departs. And this is a result of far more than yelling, although things tend to start there.
That's why I'm glad for you that you are figuring this out now, and have stepped back to dispassionately recount the histories of the men in your life. Very hard work to recall it, and very admirable to share it. You love your boys and you show them, and that's how you prove that you're your own man and have broken the cycle.
Thanks for the breathtaking mini-memoir, and best of luck. -- KT
You dug deep for this one, SW -- good on ya.
Growing up in an angry home teaches children to be hyper-vigilant as they try (mostly in vain) to outguess what will make Mom/Dad explode in order to avoid the outsized consequences. BTW, this is excellent training for being able to quickly identify garden-variety crazies in adulthood, but it comes at the cost of being confused and ashamed of one's natural instincts and reactions during the formative years. It's very hard to course-correct for this later in life. There's always some need to fulfill that role of punisher long after the perpetrator departs. And this is a result of far more than yelling, although things tend to start there.
That's why I'm glad for you that you are figuring this out now, and have stepped back to dispassionately recount the histories of the men in your life. Very hard work to recall it, and very admirable to share it. You love your boys and you show them, and that's how you prove that you're your own man and have broken the cycle.
Thanks for the breathtaking mini-memoir, and best of luck. -- KT
Friday, March 12, 2010
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Monday, March 1, 2010
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